The Nihei's: Our Story

On April 1, 2008, our 4-year-old daughter, Lauren, was diagnosed with a brain tumor. After her biopsy on April 8th it was determined that she had a bithalamic anaplastic astrocytoma with extension into her brain stem.

In the beginning of March we noticed a personality change in Lauren who normally is a very outgoing and happy-go-lucky kid. She became very clingy and shy. She didn't want to talk on the phone anymore, or play on the slide with the other kids at pre-school. By mid-March, Lauren started complaining about headaches. Her pediatrician thought it might be a sinus infection or that she may need glasses. He put her on antibiotics and we made an eye appointment.

A few days later when she started holding her head funny and her headaches returned we insisted on a CT scan. That's when her pediatrician sent us to the ER at Children's Hospital of Orange County (CHOC) for a CT scan, and when our world was turned upside down and our nightmare began...

Story continues at bottom of page

Monday, April 26, 2010

Reading from Bill McGowan

I have been lucky to know Lauren since she was a baby and have been able to share many special experiences with her and her family.

The first one that stands out is a trip we took to Lake Mead. We spent a week on a house boat and it was my first time spending that kind of time with a baby. I didn't know what to expect. By the end of the trip I was singing and dancing all of the Wiggles songs with Lauren. She was a such a good baby on that trip. Always smiling, you couldn't help but fall in love with her. That week Lauren touched me in so many ways and strengthened my own desire to be a father.

Over the past six years I have been blessed to be able to share many more experiences like that with Lauren and I cherish them all.

I will miss her, and she will be missed by so many people.

As I was thinking of the right words to say to honor Lauren, I kept seeing her smile in my head and started to wonder why I was so lucky to always get to spend time with her when she was at her best and I realized, that's just Lauren - happy, smiling, just a good girl all the time and the courage that she has faced these last 2 years is nothing short of amazing.

Gordon and Hilary, I am so sorry for your loss, but you should know that through these past 2 years that you, lauren, and both of your families have shown so many an example of love, commitment, courage, and family that many people can only hope for and it is easy to see how a child raised in your family can be as wonderful as Lauren is.

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